Adactio: Journal—Mind set
Ah! Good old Jeremy Keith, insightful and funny.
If I really want to change someone’s mind, then I need to make the effort to first understand their mind. That’s going to be far more productive than declaring that my own mind is made up. After all, if I show no willingness to consider alternative viewpoints, why should they?
There’s an old saying that before criticising someone, you should walk a mile in their shoes. I’m going to try to put that into practice, and not for the two obvious reasons:
- If we still disagree, now we’re a mile away from each other, and
- I’ve got their shoes.